Our weekend was filled with nothing but fun. We kicked it off Friday night at the Cracker Barrel, Audrey's request for dinner. After dinner we went home to rest up for our big day at "Disney Live" Ward was unable to join us due to work, but me, Audrey, my mother and grandmother headed to Pensacola around 11:00 Saturday morning. We stopped off for lunch at the Spot of Tea, downtown Mobile.

Audrey was a pot of endless chatter all the way to the Pensacola Civic Center. She was so excited, she could hardly wait. She kept repeating...we are going to have just so much fun. And indeed we did. Audrey participated in all the singing and dancing. She was in total awe as Mickey Mouse appear live on stage. When Minnie made her appearance, Audrey's eyes were bigger than ever, she starred in amazement, and grinned from ear to ear. She looked up at me and said, I just love her so much.

After the show, we went to have dinner at the Cock of the Walk....one of our favorites. Mobile no longer has one, so this was a real treat. We got home just before dark, and we were totally tuckered out. Falling to sleep came really easy.

Sunday morning Audrey got ready for a day with Kathy and Mary. They went to the Little Sisters of the Poor annual lawn party, where Audrey had a blast. Ward and I met the three of them along with Meme and my mother at the Olive Garden for lunch. After lunch, Audrey continued her day with Kathy and Mary. Ward and I did a little shopping and headed home to wait for Audrey's return.

Our weekend was busy and went by really quick, but the memories we made are priceless.

Catching Up...

Audrey is now in big girl school at St. Ignatius, and man is she thriving. She totally loves her new school, her friends, and her teacher Ms. Lucy. She is excited every morning, and has a story to tell every afternoon. Friday's are her favorite, because her teacher lets each child choose a trinket or candy from her treasure chest. Friday's are now known as "Treasure Chest Day" Audrey is now insisting that I let her walk herself to class. I don't think I can do that just yet. Maybe later in the year, but certainly not now. I don't think I'm ready to just drop her off and drive away while she walks herself to class.

One of the funniest things that has happened with Audrey and school is once a week Audrey gets to choose her outfit for the day. I had no idea that the day, her day to choose just so happened to be "Picture Day". Toward the end of September Audrey was bugging me to pieces about wearing all her Halloween shirts, dresses, etc. Well for "Picture Day", her day to choose, she wore one of her Halloween T-SHIRTS with a matching ribbon. This is also a shirt from last year. I had the cutest smocked dress with matching bow all picked out...all I needed to know was the date school pictures would be taken. Somehow I missed that memo. I got the proofs back yesterday, and was actually surprised...I really love the pictures. Audrey is extremely proud of her choice of outfits, and likes the photo on the left...so the left it is. Goodness I love that girl!

The Lollipop

The other night we met my sister, Mary Catherine, Teresa, and Kendall for dinner at the Cracker Barrel. Audrey loves that place. Ward and Audrey normally go there for breakfast and sometimes Audrey invites me to join them. You know it's one of those things that the two of them share on Saturday mornings. Honestly, I'm usually still in bed. Anyway, that place is a kids heaven for a restaurant. All the toys and gadgets, Audrey just loses herself there. Well we were leaving and she wanted this really BIG lollipop and I the mom said no. Audrey went directly to her daddy after I left, and batted her big blue eyes at him and the lollipop was hers. By the look on her face, I'll say she was loving her lollipop.

Catching Up

I have been such a slouch with my blog...so much is happening. Thankfully everything is great. We are rocking right along with our company. I can't believe how wonderful things are for us. I will try to catch everyone up:

First of all, our sweet Audrey is now sleeping in her panties. She has been potty trained for a very long time, but still needed a pull-up at night. She is so proud of herself, and says she is a "Big Girl". She told me that pull-ups are for babies, and she doesn't need them anymore. For me and her Daddy this is great. Our baby is getting older, and a lot more wiser, but not having to buy pull-ups anymore is like getting a raise. As a reward for her, we let her pick out a few new nightgowns. Of course the first one she grabbed was, you guessed it...Tinkerbell. I'm glad that thing is wash & wear, she has slept in it every night since we bought it.

Audrey started big girl school this week at St. Ignatius, and for the most part is doing okay. She only went for a half day Tuesday, and she looked adorable armed with her "Tinkerbell" lunchbox, and her back-pack. The second day was her first full day, and she didn't do so good. She cried really hard for me and that just broke my heart in two. She told me that she was smart enough and didn't need school. This morning was much better. She still had a death grip on me, but didn't shed any tears...so maybe she is beginning to like it. She loves her teacher and her classmates, but would rather be with her mom and dad...who can blame her, we are pretty darn cool parents. I love that little girl to pieces, she is my whole world.

We are getting ready for two really special birthdays in September. My grandmother, Nanny will be celebrating her 87th birthday, so we are making plans for her party. My father-in-law has a really big milestone this year, he will be turning 80. We will have a lot of family in Mobile at our house for his big day. The plans are still in the works.

Many exciting and wonderful things are going on and we could not be any happier than we are now. Ward and I are so blessed to have such a precious daughter. She is our everything and we miss her badly while we are away from her. We have a wonderful company that we love and enjoy. Our lord has blessed us dearly...thank you Jesus.

An American Beauty

New Orleans
Saturday morning me, Audrey, my mom, Kathy, Mary Catherine, and Kendall loaded up and headed to New Orleans to spend the day at the zoo. We made it there without incident and had a really good time. The weather was beautiful, but man was it hot. Luckily, all the animals were not in hiding, so we were able to see all the exhibits. Audrey rode the carousel, she chose an elephant. This time she insisted on riding one that actually went up and down. This was a first for her. Mary and Kendall walked her through the petting zoo where she fell in love with a little white goat. She petted and loved on that goat...thank goodness the zoo provides a wash area for people to clean up afterwards. We had our share of cold drinks, but opted to wait to eat when we made our way to the French Quarter. We ate at a little cafe on Decatur. After dinner, we all took a buggy ride. Our tour guide "Harry" was fantastic. Audrey and Kendall fed his mule "Pumpkin Pie" a carrot, which Audrey got a real kick out of doing that. After our buggy ride, we stopped at Cafe Du Monde for beignets....yummy. Before we knew it, our day had come to an end, so around 7:30, we loaded up and headed back to Mobile. Kathy and Audrey watched the Wizard of Oz all the way home. I'm not sure who enjoyed it more, Audrey or Kathy? After a really needed shower, me and Audrey past out. This was a short but oh so much fun trip. We will definitely do it again, but I will say this...I don't think any of us will be doing the zoo in July ever again. When I said it was HOT, I mean it was HOT!!

Happy Birthday Ward

Ward celebrated his 55th birthday yesterday and like last year Audrey was so excited. We took him to dinner. He wanted steak...so steak it was. Audrey was so good in the restaurant. She ate most her dinner and kept giving her daddy birthday kisses. After dinner, we took Ward shopping for his present. He decided on a Wii. I just knew he was going to want a big flat screen television, but nope, he wanted a Wii. We bowled for along time when we got home, he beat me every game. To my delight, Audrey didn't show much interest in it. I have been a bit iffy on having a video game in our home, but Ward really wanted one, so I caved. Audrey made him a card, and we sang Happy Birthday to him. Before he could blow out his candles, Audrey beat him to it. We also gave him a new coffee maker. He loves his coffee, so this machine is right up his alley. Tonight I am surprising him with a party at Chantilly's. I think he may be on to me, but he is playing it up as if he doesn't. I will post some party pictures from tonight on my next entry. Until then, I love you Ward, I hope you are enjoying your birthday week.

We're Back
We made it back home yesterday afternoon. I haven't had the chance to complete our day to day activities yet, but hopefully soon. This is just a sneak preview of all the fun we had. This was one of the best times I have ever had. We opted to come home a day earlier than planned, but all of us had a wonderful time. Audrey was simply a dream!!! She started kicking her feet and realized that by doing so, she could get to where she wanted to go.

Vacation
We are getting everything in order for our vacation to Gulf Shores. We go every July 4th to spend time with Ward's family. More so than last year, we are in dire need of some R & R. While we have had a wonderful year so far, Ward and I are exhausted. This year we are staying for 10 days, and we can hardly wait. Time is creeping by....will Sunday ever get here? Audrey has her bucket and shovel and is ready to play in the sand. She is so excited and has been talking about it non-stop.

We check-in Sunday the 28th and check-out Wednesday July 8th. My sister-in-law will arrive Wednesday the 1st. She is staying with us. We should have most of Ward's family with us this year. My father-in-law will also be there along with Ward's cousin Robin. This year is going to be so much fun. Audrey is now a lover of the sand and said she wants to catch some sand crabs, look for Nemo, and collect tons of seashells. This is going to be a riot....I tried to explain to her that we will catch some crabs and collect shells, but finding Nemo will be a bit more difficult.

Just like last year, I plan to blog our day to day activities. I have a new camera and will be taking pictures of everyone and everything. If anyone is over our way, give us a call. We would love to have you over.

An American Beauty

Father's Day 2009

Audrey and I decided to dedicate the entire weekend as "Father's Day Weekend" in honor of her daddy. We took him to dinner Friday after work. Ward, or should I say Audrey decided on Dreamland Bar-B-Que. She gobbled up her plate, and was on her best behavior. After dinner we went home, and Audrey played outside under the sprinkler. She rode her Little Mermaid big wheel while I walked. Ward stayed home in the cool A/C and just relaxed. All three of us had a really hard and tiring week, so we opted to turn in rather early.

Saturday morning I made us pancakes and tried my hand at tomato and cheese omelets. This was my first time to attempt cooking an omelet, but judging by the way Ward and Audrey cleaned their plates...I'll say they enjoyed it. It tasted okay, not the best, but it will do. After breakfast me and Audrey had a few errands to run in order to complete our surprises for her daddy's special day. She is awful when it comes to keeping secrets. She told him every place we went, and everything that was in the bags. "Little Stinker"

Big Top Time. The circus was in town and the three of us headed to the Civic Center for a great time under the big top. This was my first time to see a REAL circus, and I loved it as did Ward and Audrey. She was in total awe. She loved the elephants, the horses, the tigers, the pretty girls, and believe or not, her favorite were the clowns. We ate tons of snacks, had lemonade, and a snow cone. On our way home we dropped Audrey off at her friend Raley's to play for a while.

Sunday - Ward's Special Day!! Audrey presented her daddy with all his presents. Upon giving him his presents, she told him what each one was. She said "here are you new shoes, here is the picture I made for you, here are some more shoes for you daddy." We got such a kick out of watching her. She is one hot mess. Ward loved all his gifts and especially that his baby girl, his little side kick was the mastermind behind all his surprises. We loaded up our van, picked up Meme and headed to my mothers for lunch. Mom made the best roast with all the trimmings. We ate until we nearly passed out, laughed a thousand laughs, and just had a wonderful day.

Fathers Day means so much to me. I miss my daddy more and more everyday. I wish I could tell him face to face Happy Father's Day, and that he is so missed and so loved. I do everything to make sure that Audrey will grow up knowing the importance of Father's Day. She will always know that she is loved so deeply by both of her parents. Ward knows that his little girl worships the ground he walks on. His patience with her is incredible. The way he lets her dress him in make up, put bows and ribbons in his hair, and just the time he spends with her is pure magical.

Becoming Lifers!!

Audrey and her friend Raley may becoming "Lifers". I hope so. They play so well together, (usually), and they are so darn cute to watch. Raley came over yesterday for a fun afternoon of swimming. Margaret wasn't able to join them, but maybe today. Audrey and Raley had a really great time. They splashed, kicked, and jumped around like it was the best thing ever. After swimming I took them around the block on their bikes. They were both in the best mood when their play date came to an end. They hugged one another goodnight, and said they would see one another "amorrow".

Life is Good
Friday evening Ward, Audrey and myself joined Raley and her family for dinner. We went to Los Rancheros for some really good Mexican food. The girls were really well behaved. This was the first time Audrey has gone to dinner with one of her friends and she absolutely loved it. After dinner, and after Ward went for his nap, Audrey and I snuggled in the living room for a movie and popcorn. Audrey chose "Beauty and the Beast" for our movie. She made it through about half of the movie before she told me she was ready for her nap. I held her until she drifted off to sleep. She is such an angel. I guess it is true, some of the best things in life are free. Audrey told me that she loves movie night with her mommy. I have to agree with her, this was one the sweetest times I have ever spent with my little girl.

Saturday, we went for breakfast at the Whistle Stop. After breakfast we went downtown to feed the squirrels. Audrey loves doing this. We walked around for a little while until Audrey decided she wanted to go see MawMaw. We picked up Meme and headed to Dauphin Island. Once we made it to the island we picked up my mother and Jim and went for lunch. Audrey was on her best behavior all day long. We rode around the island, had a snow cone, and attempted to walk my mother's dogs, Andy and Amos. Those two are monsters. I don't think they will ever calm down. After spending the day on the island with my mother, we left for home. Audrey's friends were not home, so I took her for a walk on her bike. Toward the end of walk, she could barely pedal. She was so exhausted.

Sunday morning Audrey and her daddy left for breakfast and the park. I opted to stay home and do a lot of nothing. I napped, watched television, and did a little bit of laundry not too much, I didn't want to over do it. I totally relaxed. When they returned home, Audrey and I went to visit Meme with Kathy. Ward stayed home and he napped, watched golf and the race. We went to cemetery before going home. When we got home, Audrey headed to Raley's for dinner and to play. She is such a social butterfly.

To sum it all up...we had a wonderful weekend. The weather was beautiful, a bit on the warm side, but it was fantastic. Sometime I feel so blessed, and haven't figured out why. Life is Good!!

The Unknown Soldier
Today my sister sent me a copy of the most beautiful poems ever written, "The Unknown Soldier". My niece, Mary Catherine was given an assignment this school year which she had to choose a poem, and write a short letter to the author. The letter was to tell the author about what the poem meant to her. Below is the actual poem, followed by Mary's letter. This is so heart warming. Mary makes me proud in so many ways, and oh so often. This poem along with Mary's letter brought tears to my eyes and touched my heart so deeply.

First Trip to the Dentist

Today I took Audrey for her very first check-up. To my delight, she did amazingly well. I just knew it was going to be as bad, if not worse than her first haircut. I picked her up from daycare around 11:00 and we were on our way. She didn't ask me any questions until I parked the car. She said to me, "What is this place?" I told her that she had to see the dentist, but everything would be just fine, and it wouldn't hurt a bit. As we were walking to the door, she said that she didn't need the dentist, that her teeth felt fine. While we were waiting our turn, she had a death grip on me, and kept repeating "I want to go home".

This dentist is truly kid friendly. Dr. Baldy, is precious, she has her entire office decorative to the tee, and has many activities for kids of all ages. After being called back to the second waiting room, Audrey loosened up a little. She actually played with some the games. When her name was called, her big blue eyes became really large, and the look of terror was too much for words.

To my total surprise, Audrey sat in that chair, and followed every command of her wonderful hygienist, Julissa. She opened wide, had her teeth brushed, buffed, shined, and even flossed. For all her good behavior, Audrey got to choose two new toothbrushes. She chose a Little Mermaid and a Belle. After Julissa finished cleaning her teeth, we waited for Dr. Baldy. Audrey got a little antsy by this time, so I had to step out for only a minute or two. According to Dr. Baldy, Audrey has wonderful teeth and has been doing an exceptional job with her hygiene. I cannot be more proud of my baby girl. Good job little bit, you did great, I love you!!

An American Beauty

Where did May go?
I cannot believe it is already June. May came and went entirely to fast. So many things have been going on, that I could not find the time to blog. The most exciting news is that Ward and I have purchased the Mobile and New Orleans locations of our company out right. May 1st was our first day in business as the sole owners. WOW!! To say the least, we had an outstanding first month with sales, a bit of chaos, and my desk looking like a tornado ran over it several times.

Mother's Day. This year was not at all as great as last year. My sweet baby came down with a nasty virus and was hospitalized Mother's Day morning. She had to stay overnight, and was able to come late in the evening the following day. She was so pitiful. Hearing her ask me over and over to help her, because she was hurting so badly nearly killed me. I hated the feeling of not being able to do anything to ease her pain. All I could do was hold her, rub her tummy, and wipe her tears. Ward stayed until midnight and Audrey and I snuggle up in the bed and I sang to her until she drifted off to sleep. When we were finally able to go home, she told me that she liked the doctors that made her better, but she never wants to go back to the "Get Well Hotel". Yes, this is what she has named the hospital. I think it is pretty darn clever.

Audrey has become a bit of a social butterfly. She has two little friends that she loves to play with...Margaret and Raley. This past Wednesday, all three were at Margaret's for dinner and playtime. The next night, all three were at my house for pizza and a movie. Friday it was Raley's house for dinner and a movie....Margaret wasn't there, but oh my, did Audrey tell me that she was missing her Margaret. Raley and Margaret have such wonderful mommy's . I love the we live in a neighborhood with children who will grow up together and be the best of friends, or lifers.

Last but not least, Audrey has been enrolled at St. Ignatius Catholic School. She will begin 3K this fall. I can hardly believe it, but my little is growing up so fast and will be in "Big Girl School" as she calls it.

There has been so many other happenings in the past month, but it would take way too long to gather all my thoughts and write about it. June is here and along with it came summer. I am looking forward to a wonderful summer season. I have my 20th reunion next weekend, I have our Fendley Family Reunion in July, and no telling what other events will pop up.

Happy Birthday Allie
It is hard to believe, but my brother's little girl Allie is now 8 years old. Her birthday party was held at her Meemom's this past Saturday, and boy did she have a good time. Allie is in the 2nd grade and she is an A-B student. She is so funny. I asked her how she was doing in school and she said she was doing okay, but made a C on one of her math tests. She then asked me to throw some "times" her way. I had no idea what she was talking about...but she explained that she wanted me to ask her some multiplication questions. She got them all correct. While opening her gifts, Allie took the time to read every word of every card. I thought that was really sweet and very polite. I hope Audrey will do the same one day.

Happy Birthday beautiful girl...I love you so much!

Slip-n-Slide

Audrey's cousin Aidan gave her a Slip-n-Slide for her birthday. So Monday we opened it up, plugged in the water hose, and down they went. Audrey had her friends Margaret and Raley over for the fun. The three of them are too cute...they never grasped the concept of running and sliding on their tummies, but they ran until they lost their footing and slipped with tons of giggles that followed. Margaret's daddy and Raley's mom joined me in the backyard for the excitement. We sipped on wine and really got a kick out of watching our babies try to figure this out.

Tuesday, Audrey and Raley tried the slip-n-slide again. Still they couldn't figure it out but had a good time anyway. Raley's dad came by and I offered him a dollar if he would show these girls how to do this thing...he said no. After Raley and her mom left, I gave it a try...Audrey cracked up laughing at me. I shocked myself. I couldn't believe I did it without hurting myself. But the most shocking of all, from out of no where, there went Ward. HE DID IT TOO!! The three of us played and played. I think Audrey has pretty cool parents.

Another Fun Weekend...
Friday after work I rushed home to get ready for "Game Night" at my grandmother's. Once a month me, my sister, my Aunt Renee, my cousin Tiffany, and Nanny get together to play games. This time we played Yahtzee. I love that game. I won the first round, and Kathy had beginners luck and won the 2nd round. We ordered pizza, Nanny made her famous dip, and Tiffany brought a fruit tray. I love doing this. We always have so much fun. Audrey stayed at home with her daddy. They baked cupcakes and according to her, they had a blast.

Saturday morning we took Audrey to the Cracker Barrel for breakfast. After breakfast, Audrey and I got ready for Kendall's birthday party. She is now a teenager. Her parents are such gracious hosts. Their motto is "the more the merrier." Her daddy sure missed his calling...he is one fantastic cook. We played corn throw which is a lot of fun, but not at all easy for me. The weather was wonderful. We sat outside, munched all day, and just had fun. After the party we went home, picked up Ward, and headed the the Mobile International Speedway. Yep, you read it right...we went to the races. Our friend Ashley has a son who races, and is quite good. Who knows, we may see him one day racing in the Nextel Series. His name is J.J. Day...so be looking for him. I have to admit, I didn't think I would enjoy going, but we really had a good time, and to every one's surprise so did Audrey.

Sunday, we had to visit to a few job sites. We went to my mother's for lunch and hung out with her for a while. When we got home, Ward took Audrey for a walk and found her friend Raley. They played in her room for bit before we went to get Margaret. The three of them played in the backyard on the swing set, and played with Audrey's kitchen. Before Raley and Margaret had to go home, I promised all three that they could come back Monday afternoon and play on Audrey's new slip n slide. I will be demonstrating to them how to do it. This could cause me to pay a trip to the nearest ER. I will keep you all posted on how this bright idea turns out...stay tuned!

Graceland
Last Tuesday morning Audrey and I loaded up our van along with my mother, sister, Mary Catherine and her friend Kendall and headed to Memphis to visit Graceland. This was fabulous and well needed break from all the day-to-day chaos. This is a short summary of the fun time had by all:

Day 1 - We stopped in Hattisburg for breakfast at one of the many Cracker Barrel Restaurants. With only a few restroom breaks to go, we finally made it to Memphis around 3:30 Tuesday. We had adjoining rooms at the Courtyard by Marriott. I do believe this was one of Audrey favorites of the entire trip. She loved the fact that she was able to go from room to room. After getting cleaned up, we decided to go for dinner at the Olive Garden, requested by Mary and Kendall. After dinner we rode around (briefly), then headed back to our hotel for SLEEP!! Our hotel was across the street from a train track that was very active and busy. For a moment I felt like we were right in the middle of the scene from "My Cousin Vinnie". Thankfully, the trains didn't bother us at all. Audrey loved watching, and would say, "Here comes Thomas the Train again."

Day 2 - Let the fun begin. We all got up without any problems, loaded the address for Graceland in my GPS and we were on our way. Graceland is so very interesting. I've watched many movies, documentaries, read many books, about Elvis and Graceland, but nothing can compare to being there. We were all given headsets and we could tour his home at our leisure. Many would say that his decor is a bit on the tacky side, but given the era he had it decorated to a tee. My favorite part of his home was the Meditation Garden. This area is on the grounds of Graceland and was filled with complete tranquility. I could feel the peace within. Elvis was a very strange man, but the love he had for his family, especially his mother was very obvious. Our tour included his car museum, both airplanes, his Hollywood years, and "Private Elvis", which was about his days in the military. We had lunch at the Rock-N-Roll Cafe, which was a replica of a 50's dinner. Very quaint, and really good. Before leaving Graceland, we each signed the brick wall that surrounds this magnificent place.

Sun Studio's - After our tour of Graceland we headed to Sun Studios where it all began. Unfortunately, Audrey wasn't old enough to participate in the tour, so me and Mom sat this one out. Kathy, Mary, and Kendall did the 45 min tour and said that it was out of this world. The history of so many that got their start at what looks to be a "dive" is just unbelievable. Sam Phillips sold Elvis' contract to RCA for a mere $35,000. and many believed this to be his biggest mistake. Not really, this paved the way for many more to come out of Sun Studios as gigantic stars, like Jerry Lee Lewis, who by the way had the two biggest hits with "Great Balls of Fire", and "A Whole Lotta of Shakin".

We ended our night on Beale St. This is kind of like Bourbon Street, but oh so much cleaner. We didn't know it at the time, but Wednesdays are considered "Bikers Night". We watched some guys do stunts, and to my surprise, Audrey loved it. We took a 30 minute buggy ride and learned a lot about the City of Memphis. The Hard Rock Cafe was our choice for dinner, you can never go wrong at the Hard Rock. After dinner we went to our hotels and all of us collapsed.

Day 3 - The Memphis Zoo!! If you like zoos, this is certainly one to visit. The Memphis Zoo has been voted one of the best in the country. We saw every animal known to man. The monkeys were fantastic, the penguins were precious, the snake exhibit was awesome, and the sea lion show was too cute. Audrey rode the carousel, she chose the giraffe. She played on the playground for a bit...she loves all playgrounds. We had lunch at one of the many cafes the zoo had to offer. We walked a thousand miles. Luckily we took Audrey's stroller. She did her share of the walking, but toward the end of the day, she kicked back in her stroller. I let her pick out something from the gift shop, and settled on a stuffed penguin.

After the zoo we headed to the best Bar-B-Que in the world. We went to Neely's. The Neely's are featured on the Food Network, "Down home with the Neely's. It is family owned and operated, and totally out of this world. Me and mom share the rib platter, and both ate until we could barely breathe.

Day 4 - Before heading back home to Mobile, we visited Tupelo, MS...the birthplace of Elvis. This was by far my favorite of our trip. The tiny little house where Elvis was born was only 430 sq.ft. Two rooms, no electricity, no indoor plumbing, and only one bed. The Presley's lived there for only 3 years, when they were forced to move because his dad couldn't repay the $180.00 that he borrowed to purchase the materials needed to build this tiny little abode. The home sits in the exact same spot that it was built in 1934. The church where Elvis found his love for gospel music has been relocated and now sits next to the house. We were able to tour both the home and the church. It is hard to believe that when Elvis was 13 years old, his family moved from Tupelo to Memphis only so his dad could find work. Eight years later, Elvis returned to Tupelo, performed at the county fair, and was already considered "The King of Rock-n-Roll".

So many are fans of Elvis for different reasons. For a long time I was a fan because I loved his voice, all of his music, and the fact that he was really good looking didn't hurt either. After this trip, my views have changed...I am more of a fan because the way he dreamed and made it happen, the way he believed and loved his God, the love for his parents that he always displayed, how he never forgot his roots, and especially how he ALWAYS gave back to those in need. This was truly an eye opener for me.

Happy Birthday, Sweet BabyI can hardly believe it was just three short years ago today at 9:29 a.m. that god gave me the most precious gift of my life. My sweet little girl is 3 years old and I can hardly believe it. This morning I told her as I held her how on the day she entered this world and into my life was my happiest day ever. I told how much she is loved by me, her daddy, and so many more. I told her how special she is to her Mommy and Daddy. Same as last year...I cried as I was talking to her. Audrey wiped my tears and said to me, "Mommy, what's wrong? Don't cry, it's my Happy Birthday." Wow, this little girl is so deeply in my heart.

My goodness how she has grown in just a year. Last year at this time she was still in diapers, still wanting a bottle, and saying more words than the year before. This year she is totally potty trained, no longer wanting the bottle and will carry on a conversation as if she were 13 years old. This past year Audrey has learned so many new things. She knows her ABC's, and knows a word for each letter. She knows and recites her address to me almost on a daily basis. She knows locations of her favorite stores, parks, friends cars, and so much more. For the past few weeks, Audrey has been sleeping all night in her "Big Girl Bed". She isn't shy to let me know that she can dress herself in the mornings because she isn't a baby any longer. While her choice of outfits are a bit on the Punky Brewster side, I do let her do this...sometimes.

We celebrated her 3rd birthday this past Saturday along with family and friends. We started around noon for our Easter dinner, and began her party at 2:00. I chose a large "3" decorated with an Easter rabbit and whole bit. I doubt I will have the pleasure of choosing her cake next year...she is sure to have her own ideas. We had an Easter Egg hunt with all of her neighborhood friends, we played in the backyard on her swing set, and blew lots of bubbles. All her friends received a chocolate bunny as a party favor. This was a party that I hope Audrey will remember for along time. Her daddy video taped all day, so if she should forget, she will have his movie clips to use as reminders.

Thank you to all of our family and friends who came to help celebrate Audrey's big day, and for all the wonderful gifts Audrey received. We are so grateful to have all of you in our lives, and we thank God for each and everyone of you. Here are a few pictures of her special day.

Bye-Bye Ball....
Audrey has or should I say "had" a Minnie Mouse beach ball. We bought it last summer and she played with it often. Yesterday our yard man came and his weed-eater got it. This didn't sit well with Miss Audrey. For a moment, I thought we were going to have a grave side service for this thing. Audrey found it in the corner of the backyard and brought it to me. She was holding it like a baby with a tear in her eye. She told me that her ball was sick and said she wasn't happy. By this time Ward had come outside and she immediately ran to him with the deflated ball. We consoled her and let her know that all would be okay. Ward lifted the top to the trash can, and Audrey gave her ball one last hug and a kiss and placed in the the trash. She then looked up at her daddy and said..."Daddy, I'm not happy, can we go get a new ball?" Without skipping a beat, her daddy said "we certainly can...we can get two."

Catching Up!
I've been meaning to post for the past few days, but I have been so busy with work, it has impossible. So much has been going at"Fendley Manor"... lots of good stuff. This past weekend was so much fun. It all started Friday with me and Audrey meeting my friend Renee and her little girl, Landry. We went to the Fairhope Art Festival. What a fun time we had!! The weather was simply gorgeous. I bet we must have walked 10+ miles. Both Audrey and Landry were the sweetest little girls and on their best behavior. Neither cried for anything all day. After leaving Fairhope and saying goodbye to Renee and her bug, Audrey was fast asleep within minutes. When we arrived home, Ward was there and wanting us to have a date night. Lindsay was ready and willing. Audrey has made friends with two little girls in our neighborhood. When Lindsay arrive, Audrey was in the backyard swinging with Margaret and Raley. The three of them are such a treat to watch. They play so good together. Margaret is in Audrey's class at school, and I think they are now "best friends".

Saturday - After Ward and Audrey got back from breakfast, we got ready for our day. We decided to take Audrey to the Gulf Shores Zoo. We took her last summer when the weather was scorching hot. This time it was wonderful. Audrey walked, she said that she didn't need her stroller...I was willing to push her, but this is just another sign that my little baby is growing up. She insisted on walking and holding our hands. After the zoo, we went to the "Hang-Out" for lunch. This place is wonderful for kids. They have outdoor seating with a huge mound of sand, or should I say the largest sandbox known to man. This was the day!! Audrey took her shoes off and walked in the sand. I couldn't believe it. I nearly cried. I have tried so many times to coax her to play in the sand at the beach, but until Saturday, she didn't want any part of it. This is surely a sign that we are going to have a fun summer!!

When we got home, Audrey wanted to ride her bike. It's actually a tricycle with a steering stick that I use to push her. She can't quite do it herself yet. That will happen soon enough. I want to push her as long as she will let me. She is becoming more independent everyday. We rode to Raley's and she went with us. I put them both in the wagon and pulled them for what seemed like hours. They love it, and so do I. They played on Audrey's swing set, ate ice cream, and walked around the block to collect rocks and acorns?? By the time the day was over, Audrey was tuckered out. She slept really good all night long.

Sunday - Ward and Audrey went to breakfast while I slept in. Afterwards we went to Dauphin Island to visit with my mom. We did the usual...rode around, fed the birds, and played with my mothers two really bad yellow lab puppies, Amos and Andy. When we got home, Audrey wanted to play outside, so we went to find her friends. We did the wagon thing again, played in the backyard, searched for rocks and acorns, had more ice cream, and just played, played played.

I love that Audrey enjoys being outside so much. She is constantly asking me if we can ride her bike or walk or ride in her wagon. These few days were simply heaven. I love being Audrey's mommy, and I thank God for her everyday.

Way To Go Lady Vikings!!
Yesterday, we took Audrey to see Mary Catherine and her basketball team play one of the best games those 7th grade girls have ever played. They played their hearts out, but unfortunately, they didn't win. These girls played with respect, dignity, and by the rules of the game. They have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. The bleachers were roaring, and everyone was impressed. This was the play-offs, so this game would their last until next season. The team work, the love of the game, and the will power that I'm sure it took to look the other way when the ref called unfair fouls on most of the girls was incredible. Some of these girls have been playing ball together since the 3rd grade, and are the best of friends. Audrey will be part of a team like this one day, and I only pray that she will also have the passion that these girls displayed yesterday. Go Lady Vikings...you are super!! We are all so very proud of you and we are looking forward to watching all of you play next year.

Sophie
Today is the 3rd birthday of a very sweet and beautiful little girl named Sophie Mader. Her mom and I are really good friends and I know that today must be pretty rough for her. You see, Sophie was taken home by our lord on the day she was born. Her mother is a very spiritual women who is completely in touch with God. This day touches my soul so tightly because Sophie and my Audrey are the same in age. Audrey will turn 3 years old exactly one month from tomorrow. It saddens me because I know that the two of them would be the best of friends. This morning as I was watching Audrey sleeping, I couldn't help but think of Sophie and how her mommy and daddy are feeling today. I looked at Audrey and realized that I can no longer remember my life before she entered my world, and I can't fathom my life without her. This afternoon, the two of us are sending a balloon to Sophie. Happy Birthday Sophie...you are doing a wonderful job watching over your family. You are so deeply loved by many.

The 7 Wonders of the World
My cousin Tiffany sent me this today, and I had to share. This is truly one the most beautiful thing I have seen. This has really puts things in perspective for me. She doesn't know it, but this is the best birthday present ever. I hope it touches everyone as much as it has me. Please be sure to scroll down to the bottom of this page and turn my music off.
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Happy Birthday Mom!!

Today is my mother's 60th birthday. What a milestone! We celebrated her birthday at her house this past Sunday. I wanted her to spend her day with family and go for lunch on the island somewhere. My mom wanted to spend the day with family and insisted on COOKING us lunch. Audrey sang "Happy Birthday" to her. Believe it or not, she knows all the words. Not to bad for a two year old. My mom is a very sweet, carefree, and giving lady. Her faith in God is inspiring. I couldn't have asked for a better mother. If a tenth of her kindness and understanding has rubbed off on me, Audrey is sure to be fine. Mom has always put someone else first. She believes in her family, and she loves her God. When something is rotten with one of us, she is the first to point out that someone else is sure to have it worse, and that God will see us through it. The best part of March 4th, for my mom, is that 38 years ago on this very day, she was blessed with the cutest, sweetest, little girl ever....ME! Happy Birthday Mom, I love you. Thank you for being so great to me.

Audrey and Belle This past Thursday, Ward and I went out for a night of dancing. Lindsay came over to play with Audrey, and as a surprise, she brought along her new puppy "Belle". She is a teacup Chihuahua, and this little thing weighs only one pound and is absolutely adorable. Audrey fell in love with her immediately. She was so loving and gentle with her. She found an Easter basket and got one of her blankets for Belle. I tried to get my kiss and hug good-bye like always, but this time Audrey just kind of shooed me away. This made me a little sad, but knowing that she was happy and safe, I didn't mind to much. Lindsay is so great with Audrey, and Audrey loves her to death. It really eases my mind to know that we are leaving her in such wonderful care. We have decided to give Audrey a puppy like Belle to her for her birthday this year, and agreed to name her "Ruby". Audrey can hardly wait. Now all we have to do is find her. So if anyone knows where we can find our Ruby, please let us know.

Hey Mister, Throw Me Something...

We took Audrey to her 2nd parade last night and again she had a blast. This girl is into Mardi Gras big time. She got so excited when I picked her up from school and announced that we were going to the parade. She couldn't wait to get home to get ready. She said no to her afternoon snack, she just wanted to get downtown. We met my sister and Mary. Audrey and Mary played while waiting for the parade to begin. She loves her Mary.

Audrey waved to all the floats and horses, and boy did she take home the loot. She has enough stuffed animals to start her own toy store. Her favorite is the moon pies. She loves the banana flavor. After to parade we went for Bar-B-Que at Dreamland with my sister and Mary Catherine. The entire ride to Dreamland, Audrey talked about the parade and all the horses. She said that the horses were sleepy, but will be back in a few days. We are planning on taking her again tomorrow night to the Stripers....she is already talking about it.

Why?????
Why seems to be the question. Audrey is on a kick asking me "Why" every time I tell her to do something. At first I thought it was cute, but now it is driving me batty. No matter what I say, her reply is "Why?". I find myself sounding like my mother when I answer, "because I said so". Again she asks me, "Why". Hopefully this phase will pass soon. Her dad eats it up....thinks it is just so funny. I'm just trying to be patient and I keep telling myself that her little mind is like a sponge and she is absorbing many things. But my goodness, how many more "Why's" will there be? She pointed to the grass and told me that the grass is green. I said that is right, the grass is green. You guessed it, she asked me why? I have no idea why the grass is green. She got me.

Happy Mardi Gras

Last night we took Audrey to the Polka Dots parade, and she totally loved it. She can't wait to do it again. I wasn't sure about exposing Audrey to Mardi Gras so early, but I'm really glad we did. Float #5 was certainly having a great time. Three of my friends from high school are riders and boy were they throwing the goods. Thank you to Melissa... Audrey loves the little white bear you threw to her.

My sister is eating this up, she loves carnival life. I always tease her that in her next life she will be shot out of a canon, eat fire, or juggle something. Kathy says it's in Audrey blood. This is so true. When I was young, my parents took us to every parade, and we always went for pizza afterwards. We didn't have pizza last night, instead we went to Butch Cassidy's for the best food in Mobile.

When we got home, me and Audrey made brownies for her Valentine's party today at school. She took a box of candy for all her classmates, and sweet surprise for her teacher. She is really excited about her party today.

Tomorrow is our 3rd anniversary. Tonight we are going out to dinner and more than likely dancing. I can't believe that it has been three years already. Lindsay is coming over to play with Lulu. Tomorrow night we are taking Audrey to the parade again, and this time we are going take her wagon.

Class of 89' Red Raiders
Saturday night I met with several of my friends from high school. We are in the process of planning our 20th reunion this summer. We met at Bojangles to discuss our plans. After Bojangles, several of us headed to Chantilly's to dance the night away. We talked and laughed at one another all night. It was as if we were still in high school at a party...like we picked up where we left off 20 years ago. To say that everyone had a great time would be an understatement. There were a few people at our meeting that I haven't seen since our 10th reunion. It is amazing how everyone looks the same as they did the day we graduated....if not better. No matter what road we chose, all of us turned out okay. We are all adults and approaching our 40's. We are all are parents of the most beautiful children ever. Must be the "Red Raider" in all of us. Our reunion isn't until June, but I hope we can do this again soon. I've created a slideshow of our night together

Ice Cream

Yesterday after work I picked up Audrey from school and we met Ward at "Dreamland Bar-B-Que" for dinner. Audrey calls it the "Bar-B-Que House". Anyway Dreamland has the best BBQ in Mobile. After dinner we went home. Ward and I were really tired. Audrey wanted to go to the mall??? She is now making requests to places she would like for us to take her. This morning she asked me if she could go to Chuckie Mouse after school. Her daddy will more than likely take her, I think I will skip this trip.

So after dinner last night, we get home and Audrey says she wants some ice cream. I was in the shower so I told her to go ask her daddy to get her a bowl of ice cream. Moments later she came back and I asked her where was her ice cream? She answered: Right here. I peaked out and saw that she had gotten a spoon and the entire carton of frozen yogurt herself. I said to her that she cannot eat ice cream in the bathroom let alone straight out of the carton. When I finally made it to he kitchen, she wasn't there...instead she was in the living room with the ice cream still eating it straight from the carton. I tried not to laugh, but instead tried to be firm with her letting her know this was wrong and not the correct way to eat ice cream. I asked if she would like me to put some in her special bowl, and she looked up at me and said, "No thank you, I'm done. Can I get in the tub now?" I was stunned and didn't know what to say to that. I looked at Ward and he was trying not to bust out with laughter. My goodness this girl is something else!

Let the Good Times Roll

It is Mardi Gras time again, and we started off at the Dauphin Island parade this past Saturday. The three of us took my grandmother to my mom's where we met up with Kathy and Mary. We had a really good time. Mom thought it would be clever to take Andy to his first parade...not such a good idea. He completely fell apart as soon as the first band came near, so Mary walked him home. Amos is too rowdy, so he didn't get to go at all. Audrey loved the horses and all the throws she caught. After the parade we had lunch at mom's. She cooked spaghetti and Kathy made a salad. What a terrific way to start off the season. This may very well be the only parade that Audrey gets to attend this year...we will have to see. I'm not really a Mardi Gras person, so I doubt we will be going to any of the night parades in Mobile. But you never know with us.

Takes my breathe away

Walking on Sand

Look who finally walked in the sand!! Ward and I took Audrey to Dauphin Island yesterday and she couldn't wait to walk on the beach. I have to say, I am proud of her. This is the first time she has EVER touch the sand without screaming. Although she had her boots on, I'm still very happy. This could be a sign of fun times at the beach this summer. Stayed tuned....

Check out the pier, where is the water? What happened? The public beach on Dauphin Island now connects to Sand Island. I guess that is what happens after several storms touch down near such a small barrier island such as "Dauphin Island".

Beanbag
Last night Ward was watching "American Idol" and Audrey seemed to be enjoying it as well. Ward was in his recliner, but Audrey insisted that they share her beanbag that Santa brought her. Audrey pulled her beanbag in front of the television and asked her daddy to come sit with her. Without hesitation he did. He also picked her up from school at her request. She wanted to go to McDonald's and of course they did just that. Audrey has a t-shirt that reads: "My Hands May Be Small, But I Can Still Wrapped Them Around My Daddy". That is the two of them in a nut shell.

Audrey's First Haircut



We took Audrey for her first haircut yesterday. It was awful. Bless her heart she was scared to death. We took her to the lady that cuts Mary Catherine's hair in hopes that it would help with her fear. No such luck. She needed a haircut in the worse way. Audrey, like me is extremely tender-headed. She cries in pain every time I brush her hair. I have to use a rinse conditioner and a leave-in conditioner. I thought that if we got her just a trim, brushing her hair wouldn't be so bad. She screamed louder than I have ever heard her scream before. She kicked, slapped, and somehow, kicked her boots off. Ward and I had to take turns holding her. I have to give it to Ms. Charlene...she was very patient and very soft spoken with Audrey. Hopefully next time will not be as bad. Coming Soon, first trip to the dentist....

Today in the News...

This was too funny, I had to share. Audrey climbed up on potty, grabbed the newspaper, and began doing her business. She is such a big girl. Is this hilarious or what??

First Cousins, Best Friends,

As Close As Sisters

Bleassed
We had another fun weekend in the Fendley house. It all started Friday after work. We went for Bar-B-Que at Dreamland. Yummy. Audrey loves that place, she was on her very best behavior. After dinner we decided to just go home. All three of us were completely exhausted.

Saturday morning the three of us went to Krispy Kreme...to my delight I was invited by Audrey this time. This is usually just one of those things that she and her daddy do together. But every now and then I get the invite. The weather was horrible. It rained most of the day. By lunch time, the weather was a little better, so we decided to go out for lunch. Again, Audrey was on her best behavior. We took her to "Butch Cassidy's". This is a very small place, with the best burgers in Mobile. It is guaranteed to make your mouth water for more. After lunch, all of us napped. We played with Audrey's Crayola easel, she sang her ABC's for us, and counted to 11. I'm so proud.

Today Ward took Audrey to the Explorium downtown. Ward took this picture of her playing in this humongous ball pit. She wants me to go next time and get in the ball pit with her. I can't wait!!! She really enjoyed her day with her daddy. I opted to stay home. Lots of work to do around the house. Actually I just needed some "me" time. I also tried my hand in cooking homemade Vegetable Beef Soup. I have to say, it turned out pretty darn good. I cooked enough for a small army, so the remainder is in our freezer for another cold and rainy day. I also made Banana Pudding for dessert. I prepared a huge salad to take to the office for our lunch tomorrow. Talk about being hot in the kitchen.

Weekends like this makes it all worth while. It makes me realize just how lucky and blessed I am. I have a husband who will volunteer to take his daughter to a place that he knows he will have to chase. I have a beautiful little girl who tells me I'm so pretty when I have my hair in a knot on top of my head, no make-up, and wearing sweats. How is that for LOVE???

Foxy Lady

I found this photo of my family and had to share. This is by far my favorite. Check out my parents outfits. We were being dropped off at my grandmother's so that my parents could go out for a night on the town. I was 4, my sister was 6, and my brother was 10 days old. I can just hear my dad saying...Hey baby, put on your "Foxy Lady" t-shirt and white strappy sandals and don't forget to tease your hair. We are going to the Long Branch for some cold beer. I'll put on my really dirty work boots and leave them untied just for you."

A Snake and A Hawk????
Yesterday afternoon, I got home with Audrey and decided we would play outside until her daddy got home. To my horror, there was a snake on my porch. I went into a complete panic. I snatched up Audrey, got inside, and slammed the door. I gathered myself together enough to get to the phone. I called Ward, who at the time was at the super market. He said he was almost done, and that he would be home in about 30 min. He said, that since we were safely inside, he should finish his shopping. WHATEVER!! I then called my mom, she suggested that I get the shovel. Well mom, the shovel is OUTSIDE WITH THE SNAKE...NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. I then called my nephew Thomas. He was in route downtown to watch the GMAC parade. I told him about the snake and that Ward was tied up for bit. So while I waited for Thomas, Ward, or whom ever to arrive first, me and Audrey starred out the window at this thing. We were waiting for someone to pass by, I mean there are always people jogging, strolling babies, riding bikes, etc., but no one passed by. And then it happened...the nasty thing started moving. Finally, at the same time, Ward was home and Thomas was right behind him with his friend Nick. Thank goodness we were safe. Thomas stomped on it, but I insisted that he do more. I ran inside to find something for him to use to chop it up. Thomas did what I asked, and threw in the street. Just then, his other friend Justin arrived, I asked Justin to run over the snake, back up, and run over it again just to be sure. If you are wondering, this was a small snake, about the size of a drinking straw, but so what??? Where there are babies, there are mamas. I wonder if the mama snake was seeing all of this happen. Goodness I hope not. I called my sister to tell her what had happened, and she suggested that I put moth balls outside. So today, I plan to sprinkle my entire yard, flower beds, shed etc. with moth balls.

Later in the evening I was outside taking to my neighbor across the street. I told her what happened and how worked up I got. Just as we were walking over to look at the dead snake this huge hawk flew over us. That thing was gigantic, beautiful, but my gracious it was big. That was it, that was all I could take of the Wild Kingdom outside my home...I mean I live in the city, but you would think there should have been a film crew near by shooting a documentary for the Animal Planet.

Every person I called, Ward, my Mom, Thomas...they all asked me "What kind of snake is it?, How big is it? My answer, I have no idea what kind it is, and it's big enough. I mean, a snake is a snake.

Lordy Lordy Look Who's 40

We celebrated my sister Kathy and my friend Kim's 40th birthday last month. They chose to dance the night away at Chantilly's and man did we have a good time. Their birthdays are a day apart, and they have shared many birthdays together in the past. This year was no exception. I brought a cake, just like the one they had for years. Many of their friends were there to help bring in this new mile stone with the two of them. We danced until our legs ached, laugh until we cried, and toasted to the two of them all night long. Kathy and Kim received the G.R.O.D. keyring and Magnolia to commemorate their 40th. If you click on my album link, you will see just how much fun we had. Happy Birthday you two, I love you!

Bye-Bye Bottle
Audrey is now officially a "Big Girl". She is completely potty trained and no longer takes a bottle. She had her last bottle Christmas Eve. I told her that when she was fast asleep, Santa was going to sneak in and take it from her. We bagged up all her bottles and left them for Santa. This transition was a little rough at first. She wanted me to call Santa and ask him to bring her bottles back, and in return she would give him her new tricycle. Everyone told me that I should have taken the bottle from her when she turned a year old, but for my own selfish reasons, I ignored their advice. I wanted to keep her my little baby as long as possible. This new adventure totally broke Audrey's heart, and in return, crushed me. She cried hard, but never asked me for it at night. I knew the reason for her tears. Thankfully I threw them all out, because there were a few times that I felt like giving in. Her daddy could barely stand it, and he was tempted to go and by her a bottle. This ordeal was hard for all of us, but especially for Audrey. All is good now, she isn't crying for it any more. I have no regrets about letting her have a bottle until she was more than 2 1/2 years old, I only wish it could have been a lot easier for her.