Merry Christmas
Wow what week this has been. I have been working from home since Monday with Audrey in tow. She is out of school all week. Thankfully Mary Catherine has been here with us to lend me a hand. We are getting ready for Santa to arrive at the Fendley house. Audrey is so funny, she is so excited. She has told just about everyone she has come in contact with that Santa is coming to her house.

I somehow pulled or twisted, or I don't know what, but I have really hurt my knee. I'm limping around everywhere I go and Audrey now says her knee is hurting and is limping right along with me. She calls hers a boo boo.

Ward and I have been working on getting everything ready for our first really big Christmas morning with Audrey. She has agreed that Santa will need all of her bottles tonight in order to get them back to the North Pole in time to prepare them for all the babies that will be born tonight. She placed 3 cookies on her snowman plate and poured Santa a cup of milk. We decided that since this will be Santa's third visit to our house, 3 cookies would be great. She was very eager to get to sleep so that Santa would be sure to visit.

Tomorrow morning we will blessed to see the excitement on our precious baby girl's face. We are having family over for dinner tomorrow afternoon, and then my sister and I are going to my Aunt Renee's house to visit for a while.

Today as I was cleaning and dusting pictures I showed a picture of my daddy to Audrey. This was our conversation:

Me: Do you know who this is?
Audrey: No I don't know who he is.
Me: This is your Papa Tom, he's my daddy and he loves you to pieces.
Audrey: Where does he live?
Me: He lives in heaven with Jesus.
She smiled the most prettiest smile and said Papa Tom loves me to pieces? With a really tight hug, I said he really does.

The picture I am talking about was taken at my grandmothers house 12 years ago. It was Christmas Eve, and our last Christmas with him. He passed away one week later. My conversation with Audrey gave me a really large lump in my throat, but I was able to hold back my tears for her sake. I miss my daddy everyday, and this time of year really amplifies my sadness. I know my daddy is happy and I know that he is with me, just as I felt him with me today while I was talking to Audrey. I sang "Silent Night" to Audrey after our discussion. This is my daddy's favorite Christmas carol. It was almost like I could hear him singing in heaven. I love you Daddy, and I miss you so badly, Merry Christmas.

Merry Christmas to all my family and friends. Our Christmas wish for all of you is a safe and wonderful holiday season. Our family is so very blessed for the family and friends we have in our lives. We have a new year approaching us, and pray all of you will prosper with riches of love in 2009.

Love to all,

The Fendleys

Audrey loves her swing, need I say more?

My Whole World

Nanny's Christmas

I hosted our "3rd Annual Nanny's Christmas Party" at my house this past weekend. For years my grandmother did this every Christmas Eve at her house. Now she has past the reins to me, and I am so honored. My party should never be compared to Nanny's...she really did it up great. Growing up having our Christmas' at Nanny's is a childhood memory I am so thankful to have. We were all little boys and little girls, and now we are all men and women with families of our own. The crowd isn't nearly as big as back in day, but with each year, it gets larger. Our extended family is gigantic and with all of us having our own obligations, like the block parties, school functions, that thing called work, etc., it is nearly impossible for all of us to get together at the same time. But, this year the crowd was more than last, and who knows, next year could be bigger.

Ward made is almost famous chili. This was all his idea, and by every body's reaction, this will perhaps become a tradition. Everyone brought a dish that somehow, everyone loved. We had a lot of food, but hardly any left overs. (i must confess, I stashed ME a bowl of chili for later.) Kathy I never did find Nanny's famous fudge you were looking for I wonder who gobbled it up?

Audrey was on her best behavior, I think because my cousins little boy Aiden, not yet two, was in full swing. He is the cutest thing, and appears to be on a mission with every step he takes. He is truly a boy. He fell, he climbed, he slid, he banged his head and never cried the first tear. I heard my sister say to my cousin Chris, "You don't have to worry about him not being able to fend for himself...he is tough." That he is. He finally tired out and fell asleep in Audrey's bed.

Dummy me, I left my camera at the office, and was in a complete panic, but thankfully Mary Catherine had hers and snapped some pretty good pictures of everyone. I should have my camera surgically attached to my side somehow.

We had the best time this year. We ate a lot, we laughed a million laughs, we heard the same stories again, and enjoyed watching Nanny open her presents. The party came to an end, and I must say, I was kind of sad. I wasn't ready for everyone to go home. I'm already thinking of things to do next year.

Merry Christmas to all of my wonderful family. I am so blessed to have you in my life. I love all of you so very much.

Happy Birthday Mary Catherine
Mary Catherine is now a teenager. She turned 13 this past Saturday, December 6. Ward, Audrey, and I took Mary and two of her friends to lunch at San Miguel's. The waitress' put this big pink sombrero on her head, and smeared her face with whipped cream while singing Happy Birthday to her. I can remember the day Mary was born, and all the funny things she has done and said throughout the years. She has really grown into a beautiful young lady. Happy Birthday Mary, I love you.

Making Daddy Pretty
This is what happens when a 2 year old is bored. While I was cooking dinner last night, Ward was in charge of entertaining Audrey. Her interest in make-up is apparent as you can see. I'll give it to Ward, he was a real sport. I had no idea this was going on, but imagine my out burst with laughter. Audrey came into the kitchen, grabbed my hand, and said she made daddy pretty. Such a funny little girl.

All in the Family

My niece and nephew both attend Little Flower Catholic School, and are in the 7th grade together. Their school project this year was a "Geography Project." Each student had to select a country and create a tri-board, with lots of graphics and information. Mary Catherine chose Italy, and Thomas chose Ireland. I am so proud to announce that they both placed and won ribbons for their projects. Mary took first, and Thomas took third. Now I am certain that with this bloodline, Audrey will ace this in about 10 years. Check out these prize winning projects...

Thomas'

Mary's

Happy Thanksgiving 2008

This is truly my favorite time of year, my favorite holiday, the beginning of getting together with family and friends, hearing the same stories all over again, and making new memories to be shared next time.

We started our Thanksgiving holiday Tuesday by celebrating my nephew's 14th birthday. At his request, we gathered at "Shogun" a hibachi bar. This is always fun. We watched and applauded as our chef showed off is incredible skills in cooking the best ever Japanese food. Thomas got a set of drums for his birthday. A full set of drums, big drums, loud drums. I can't wait to hear his music.

Thanksgiving Day-We had our family over for a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner. Our group was smaller this year, but still fantastic. We had all the trimmings. After dinner, we went to the cemetery to wish my dad a happy holiday. Later that evening, Ward and I decided that we wanted to have a date. Lindsay, came over to play with Audrey. While I was primping, Audrey got into my makeup without me realizing...just look at the picture. I think she was right on target. We had a blast dancing the night away.

Friday the three of us went for lunch and a drive around town. We both were in agreement to skip shopping. After our drive we headed home for a well needed nap. My sister and I went to my Aunt Renee's house to play cards and visit with Nanny. We had wine and snacks, and whole lot of fun.

Saturday, Ward cooked us breakfast, and afterwards we took Audrey in for her Christmas portraits. She was absolutely beautiful. She was right on target with her smiles. She wore a gorgeous red velvet dress, with cream tights and matching bow. She was out of this world precious.

Look out War Eagle's, here we come. Was that just the best game of the decade or what? Go Bama!! Ward joined a few of his friends for the game and fun. I opted to stay home with Audrey. After all the festivities, I was pretty tired. I believe they call this a total "Shut Down".

Sunday, nothing exciting, we just stayed around the house for most of the day and did a whole lot of nothing. We needed get ready to get back to work.

No More Medicine
Audrey had her LAST dose of medicine last night, and she couldn't be happier. We commemorated the event by letting her throw it in the trash herself. Audrey gave a kiss and a hug, and said "Goodbye nasty medicine". For the most part she took her medicine without complaining. I have to say, I tasted it, and it is indeed nasty. So for ten days, twice each day, she had to ingest this horrible stuff.

Thankfully it is now over, and she is doing great. Good job Audrey!!!

Favorite Pictures of Audrey

Clean Bill of Health
Audrey went for her follow up visit with her doctor yesterday. We first had to get another chest x-ray and wait for the results. Thankfully the x-ray showed that her lungs are crystal clear. She will be on antibiotics until Monday, but we are happy happy happy. Audrey has been a trooper through all of this. Bless her heart, this ordeal has been pretty rough on her little body. She doesn't like the medicine, she says it is nasty. Every time she takes it, she says no more "Get Well Hotel". That is what she calls the hospital.

Yesterday I stayed home with her, so we were able to laugh and play and blow bubbles. Well it got to be her nap time, and she has become quite a procrastinator. She didn't want to nap, and every time we got settled, she would think of something else she needed. So finally, she said "I want more milk please". I looked at her and said, "This is the last time I'm getting up to get you anything. If you need more than milk, tell me now. She said "I don't need anything else". So I get up, place the remote by the television, and get her some more milk. I get back on the bed, we got settled, and then I realize that I did not grab the remote. So then I get back up, grab the remote, get back in bed. Just as we get settled again, Audrey, without looking at me, or moving says...."You got back up". I tried not to let her see me laughing, but I couldn't hide my amusement from her. What a character.

Look who's feeling better

Audrey loves 7UP and Sprite. While she was sick this is really all she would drink. Guess who let's her drink it straight out of the bottle? Not me...you guessed it, her Daddy. He has taught her all kinds of fun stuff. Things I wouldn't dream of letting her do. This is why she is a true "Daddy's Girl". They are two of a kind. I asked her last night who is her bestfriend? She replied..."my daddy". I just knew she was going to say "mom", but nope...her daddy is her bestfriend. Blah Blah Blah......

I'm just glad she is feeling better. Her appetite is back and she is sleeping soundly.

I guess by now everyone knows about Audrey's hospital stay. I took Audrey to the doctor last

Monday because she was running a high fever. As I posted earlier, she was seen by another doctor who diagnosed her with infected eardrums. We were sent on our way with antibiotics. Audrey's fever never broke, so Wednesday while her fever remained at 104.9, I called her doctor and was told that all doctor's were booked, and she could be worked in as a "re-check" the following day. WHATEVER!!!

This is the part where I literally came unglued. I took her to see Dr. Spriggs who is a General Practitioner. He took one look at her and immediately ordered a chest x-ray and blood work. Within minutes of the results, Dr. Spriggs informed us that our sweet baby had pneumonia and needed to be admitted. Audrey was extremely dehydrated due to the high fever. This news was gut wrenching for me. I knew not to wait for the so called "re-check", but what could have happened if I did? I can't seem to stop thinking about this?

Ward, without me knowing put his fighting gloves on and called her pediatrician and pretty much let her have it. Who can blame him? I'm glad he did, because I was having a hard time holding myself together. At this point Audrey needed me and that is all that mattered. I couldn't stop to think of anything else. Watching our baby suffer like she did, and unable to do anything to help her was absolutely heartbreaking.

Audrey stayed in the hospital Wednesday night, and got to go home Thursday evening. We had a restless night. Her fever finally broke a 4:00 a.m. Her nurses were out of this world. They put her Annie in a gown and gave her band-aids. The techs were sure to check Annie's vitals before checking Audrey. This reassured Audrey that it wouldn't hurt. We love Nurse Val.

We go this Thursday for another chest x-ray. Hopefully it will show that the meds are working and all will be okay. Audrey went back to school today, and I'm back at work. She wanted to play outside this past weekend, but there was no way I would let that happen. Friday night, we watched the "Wizard of Oz" for the first time together, and she loved it!! She liked the lion the best, and the flying monkeys didn't scare her. I told her that we could purchase it on DVD after her appointment Thursday.

Ward and I want to thank all our family and friends for your prayers and support throughout this ordeal. We could have not gotten through this without all of you. Our little girl is our whole world and there is nothing we wouldn't do for her.

Down in the dumps
Audrey is really sick, AGAIN. Bless her heart, the two of us went on our very first road trip together this past weekend, and now she is sick. I took her to the doctor yesterday, and Dr. Little (not her regular doctor), diagnosed her with infected eardrums. She is on a heavy duty antibiotic for the next 10 days. Yesterday evening her temperature shot up to 106.8. I completely freaked out. I called her doctor immediately, who had to call me back. Well I wasn't wasting time on that call, so I was just about to rush her to the ER, when the phone rang. It was the doctor calling me back. Dr. Robert's assured me that all would be okay. She said by using an ear thermometer, her temperature would be elevated due to the infection. Ward rushed home with a different type of thermometer and her temp was a bit lower. This calmed me down considerably. We had a very rough night. She ran fever all night long, got sick in our bed around 12:00 a.m....she is just pitiful. Today she is at home with my mom. Kathy and Mary took over this afternoon. Mom will be back tomorrow.

As soon as things calm down and I get caught up at work, I will blog about our trip. We had a blast. Oh yea, she has started calling me "Mom". Where did that come from? I like Mommy.

One of my friends sent this to me via email. I have never laughed so hard. What a wonderful way to start my day. I forwarded it to Ward, who in his ever so clever and witting way sent me his respond:

THE NEXT SURVIVOR SERIES
Six married men will be dropped on an island with one car and 3 kids each for six weeks. Each kid will play two sports and either take music or dance classes. There is no fast food. Each man must take care of his 3 kids; keep his assigned house clean, correct all homework, and complete science projects, cook, do laundry, and pay a list of 'pretend' bills with not enough money. In addition, each man will have to budget in money for groceries each week. Each man must remember the birthdays of all their friends and relatives, and send cards out on time--no emailing.

Each man must also take each child to a doctor's appointment, a dentist appointment, and a haircut appointment. He must make one unscheduled and inconvenient visit per child to the Urgent Care.

He must also make cookies or cupcakes for a social function. Each man will be responsible for decorating his own assigned house, planting flowers outside, and keeping it presentable at all times. The men will only have access to television when the kids are asleep and all chores are done.

The men must shave their legs, wear makeup daily, adorn himself with jewelry, wear uncomfortable yet stylish shoes, keep fingernails polished and eyebrows groomed. During one of the six weeks, the men will have to endure severe abdominal cramps, back aches, and have extreme, unexplained mood swings but never once complain or slow down from other duties.

They must attend weekly school meetings, church, and find time at least once to spend the afternoon at the park or a similar setting. They will need to read a book to the kids each night and in the morning, feed them, dress them, brush their teeth, and comb their hair by 7:00 a.m.

A test will be given at the end of the six weeks, and each father will be required to know all of the following information: each child's birthday, height, weight,shoe size, clothes size, and doctor's name. Also the child's weight at birth, length, time of birth, and length of labor, each child's favorite color, middle name, favorite snack, favorite song, favorite drink, favorite toy, biggest fear, and what they want to be when they grow up. The kids vote them off the island based on performance.

The last man wins only IF...he still has enough energy to be intimate with his spouse at a moment's notice. If the last man does win, he can play the game over and over and over again for the next 18-25 years eventually earning the right to be called Mother!


Ward's Response:
Other than the leg-shaving, which items on this list have I NOT done? How many times have my fingernails been bright red, or my legs been covered with baby lotion? You should not leave your make-out if you don't want her to play with it, or test it out on her dolls - AND me.

Where do you think she learned that chocolate is the ideal breakfast food, that it's okay to pretend that the pots and pans are really drums (especially when you are trying to sleep), and that starting a sentence with "don't tell Mommy" is perfectly natural?

How many times have I had ribbons in my hair, changed diapers on a doll, or make snake-looking things with play-do? Like her, I hate the taste of play-do, but you have to try it at least once to know that the blue and red both taste the same.

So what if I let her pick out her own clothes? I think she looks cute in multi-colored outfits, and there is no law that says both shoes have to be the same color. The people at Krispy Kreme look forward to our visits - just to see what clown-type outfit she has on today.

Who does she run to when HER diapers should be declared a toxic waste site? I just roll with the flow, but cannot wait to remind her of this when she is a bit older. Who else can change diapers in the men's room at McDonald's without missing a beat.....the hardest part was keeping her from slipping off the urinal.

Who do you think taught her to play with the microwave buttons...they make really fun sounds...especially when you do it about 100 times. Plus, why else would a car have so many little knobs and buttons if not to entertain a small child? You can easily rest everything, but I do admit that riding around with the emergency flashers on can distract other drivers.

She learned to bake cookies - using a recipe handed-down from my Mom - you know the whop-them-on-the-counter "homemade" cookies. Her other favorite - "Mac & Cheese & Other" is all my idea. You can mix most anything that will melt - chocolate kisses is her favorite (if you didn't know).....dinner and dessert all mixed together is both time-saving and fun...everything in one bowl.

All this, and still no appreciation from her OTHER Mother.

Fun..Fun..Fun!

We had another fun weekend. First we started by getting Audrey back to school for the first time since she came down with Strep Throat. She didn't wear her costume, but she insisted on wearing her Halloween shirt and matching ribbon. Audrey's class had a fantastic Harvest party. All the kids were loaded down with lots of candy and trinkets. Friday night we had my sisters family and other friends over and we all went door to door collecting more candy. Audrey was the cutest ladybug ever. She was very polite, and sounded so sweet while saying "Trick of Treat" followed by Thank you. Afterwards, we loaded up and all went to Los Ranchero's for the best ever Mexican dinner. Let me tell you, by the time we got home, we were all completely pooped out.

Saturday morning Audrey and I went to my mom's house on Dauphin Island to spend the day with her. This would have been my parents 41st wedding anniversary. Mom and I took Audrey and my two new brothers, Amos and Andy for a very long and tiring walk. We went to the public playground, where we watch Audrey swing & swing. Afterwards, we drove around the island. The West End really took a beating from Hurricane Gustav. While the crews are working hard to get it back into shape, there is still quite a bit of work to be done. We went for some ice-cream and then Audrey and I headed back to Mobile. Ward met his brother and other friends to watch BAMA win yet another game. Roll Tide Roll!! Ward cooked us the best Rib-eye steak, baked potato, and baked beans dinner ever. Yummy!

Sunday after our infamous pancake breakfast, we left for the Annual Pecan Festival in the great big town of Theodore, Alabama. Audrey got to feed the animals at the Petting Zoo. I'm not sure who enjoyed it more, Audrey or her daddy. You be the judge. We went for lunch, drove around a bit, and headed back home for well needed nap. Spending weekends with my family is my favorite thing to do. The weather was perfect...how could I ask for more.

Look who has braces...

Mary Catherine is now the proud owner of braces for the next two years. She is in her her 2nd week and we can already see the difference. I feel for her. I wore braces for 5 years. Mary sent me this picture via her cell phone, the quality isn't the greatest, but she is still just as beautiful as she has always been. The day I had mine removed was the happiest day of my life at the ripe old age of 22. The entire time that I wore braces, I craved Bar-B-Que ribs...so you guessed it, I pigged out on ribs in public for the first time in what seemed like forever the day those things came off. So I am making a date with Mary to take her out for ribs the day she has hers removed. Keep smiling Mary, you look wonderful!

Ups and Downs...
Thursday night me and Ward had our night out together. Lindsay came over and kept Audrey. All seemed well and fine right....wrong. Ward and I had a great time dancing and talking after several longs weeks at work. Anyway, the weather was really bad, it rained about 3". Audrey was asleep when we got home, but she woke up around 4:00 a.m. with 105 fever. Yep, you read that right. I stayed home with her Friday, and she seemed to be okay. Her fever was gone around 3:00 Friday afternoon. You would have never even known she was sick.

Saturday morning we took her downtown to the square and let her feed the squirrels. Or should I say, let her chase the squirrels. The grass was muddy and by the time we left so was Audrey. She scrapes the peanuts on the sidewalk, and the squirrels come out of nowhere. At one point, I counted 13 squirrels at her feet. She didn't blink, budge, or cry. She was having a blast. Unfortunately, I didn't have my camera...again. After the park, we went for lunch and headed home to get ready for some BAMA football. Roll Tide Roll...they did it again.

Sunday, we had our pancakes with all the trimmings. After breakfast we got dressed and headed out for a day at the Greater Gulf State Fair. This was Audrey's second time to go...she was only 6 months old her first trip. Thankfully she is still to small to ride any of the "pack as you go" rides, so we let her play a couple of games and watched her eat cotton candy. She loved the petting zoo. I was so proud of her. She fed those goats like there was no tomorrow. She wasn't scared at all. This time I had my camera. We headed home after the fair and all three napped.

Monday Morning, oh my, Audrey's fever is back. This time it was 102.9. I made her an appointment with her pediatrician, where we learned she has "Strep Throat". My poor sweet baby. She is out of school until Friday. My mom is with her today, Lindsay will be with her tomorrow, and mom will be back on Thursday. Hopefully, she will be all better by Friday, and she will not have to miss her Harvest party at school. Is she cute or what?

Conversation with Audrey
The saying is true. Kids really do listen to everything you say. Audrey has gotten to the point of telling me that her tummy hurts. So I always tell her "let's go try to poo poo". Well yesterday I had a really bad headache and the conversation went like this:

Me: Audrey we are going to go to bed early tonight. Mommy doesn't feel good.

Audrey: You don't feel good?

Me: No my head hurts really bad.

Audrey: Your head hurts?

Me: Yeah, really bad.

Audrey: Well go try to poo poo Mommy.

Although I really did feel bad, I couldn't help but smile and cover her with kisses. This conversation with Audrey helped me feel better. We were able to call it a night rather early, and today, I feel great. She is at school, we are at work, and have a date planned for tonight. Audrey is excited that Lindsay, (her sitter) is coming over to play. Gosh, that little girl is something special.

Happy Halloween!!

We are getting in the Halloween Spirit! We have our flag flying, and our candy in the bowl. I volunteered for goodie bags for Audrey Harvest party next Friday. Her class will get to wear their costumes to school, and have a really fun party. Audrey is going to be a ladybug. Her costume is so pretty. She wore it last year as well. So I thought since it still fits, she can just wear it again. Thankfully she doesn't remember it, so she is very excited about getting to wear it this year. It actually fits her better this year than last.

We will be having our annual Halloween party at our house again. We have everyone over to Trick-or-Treat. Everyone brings a bag of candy and their favorite drinks. All the moms walk with the kids, while our men folk stay and pass out the candy. This year, we are planning on going out for dinner after the kids are finished collecting all the candy they can stand. It's going to be fun. So if anyone is interested in coming to our house this year...come on over!!!

Yesterday, Audrey and I carved her pumpkin. This was the first time I ever attempted this, but I think it turned out pretty cute. I didn't know that pumpkins were so messy and so slimy on the inside. There must have been about a million seeds inside that thing. Audrey was so patient with me. She sat right beside me and talked the entire time. We placed a fake candle lite in it, and it glowed all night long. Audrey is so proud of her "punttin". Judging from the picture to the right, it is hard for me to tell who's smile is bigger, Audrey's or her pumpkin's? Goodness, I love this little girl. This is going to be a fun Halloween. I can hardly wait!!

ROLL TIDE ROLL!!!

Happy 86th Birthday Nanny
We celebrated my grandmother's 86th birthday last week at the "Olive Garden". This year we opted to have a much smaller group. Last year for her 85th, we celebrated with just about all of our living relatives in Mobile. I'm sure that the Olive Garden was happy to see less people walk through the door this year. We had the three Fendleys, my sister Kathy and her two kids, Thomas and Mary Catherine, my cousin Tiffany and her boys, Noah and Brant, my Aunt Renee, Uncle Bobby, and of course the birthday girl, Nanny. I think her birthday turned out to be great. She seemed to really enjoy herself. Just like last year, we ate all the salad and bread sticks we could handle, and topped it off with each of us having our very own large entree. We laughed, told stories, and caught up with everyone. My cousin Noah is now a sophomore at Faith Academy, and oh my he is one good looking young man, with a personality to match.

I took several pictures, but somehow Audrey got her hands on the camera and really started taking shots. Most of them were of her index finger covering the lens. Now who in the world would have given her the camera....let me think. Could it have been her daddy? Of course it was. So the group shot isn't all that great, but it's family that is all that matters.

Before saying goodnight to everyone, we decided on the date to have "Nanny's Christmas" at my house. This will be my third year to host her party, and I love it. So all you kin folk get ready we are sure to have a great time. Bring a friend or two if you like.

Yeah...I'm Back
So much has been going on for the past month, that I haven't had a chance to sit down and blog. Ward and I have been working non-stop at our window company which is a good thing, but oh so hard. In the past month we ran from a Hurricane Gustav all the way to Demopolis, Alabama. My father-in-law lives there, so Ward likes to use hurricanes as reason to head that way. We both caught a very nasty and mean sinus infection. Thankfully, after almost 3 weeks, we are just about completely better. Amazingly, Audrey has not been affected by our illness. I guess those "Flintstones Vitamins" really do work.

My sweet baby girl...let me try to catch everyone up on her. She is talking up a storm. She is putting 10 word sentences together which amazes both me and Ward everyday. She says "please" and "thank you" all the time. She now insists on bathing herself...now that is funny to watch. She is learning her ABC's, which is totally hilarious. She starts out with A B C D S T V Y X, and so on. She has the rhythm down, but we have a bit more work in front of us. She is counting to 10, again not in correct order. She starts with 1 2 3 4 8 7 5 9 6 10. She is so funny. Audrey is just a complete dream to be with...I love that little girl to pieces.

We are getting ready to head back to Demopolis this weekend for my father-in-laws birthday. All of Ward's sisters and his brother will be there. Tomorrow night we are celebrating my grandmother's 86th birthday at her favorite, the Olive Garden. I will take lots of pictures of tomorrow night and this weekend.

Hopefully, I will be able to write a lot more soon. There is so much to say, so many wonderful things have be happening lately. So maybe this short blog entry will help get everyone a little more up to speed with what has been going on with The Fendleys.

Licking the Bowl
We were all geared up for Tropical Storm Fay. Thankfully, she never made it our way. I was prepared to be cooped up in the house for a few days, and made sure that Audrey wouldn't go stir crazy, or cause her parents to do the same. So Friday, after work, the three of us headed to the supermarket. We made sure that we had all we would need just in case. Audrey is becoming quiet the little shopper. She slipped a box of chocolate cake mix and white icing into our cart. So Saturday night the two of us got to down baking. Her daddy moved her table into the kitchen so she would be comfortable. We added, we mixed, we blended, and you guest it...Audrey licked the bowl. This was her favorite part of the process. I had so much fun baking with my little "Martha Stewart." Baking is one of her favorite things to do. She has baked cookies with her daddy and a yummy cake with me. This weekend, we are making cupcakes. I think cupcakes will be easier for her to hold and decorate. She is already asking me if it is time to bake. She's so funny. She's my girl.

Another fun weekend!
The Fendleys had another fun weekend for the books. I had the pleasure of joining Audrey and her daddy for their Saturday visit to Krispy Kreme. This was really an honor because she has never asked me to join them before now. Krispy Kreme on Saturday is just for Audrey and her daddy. Audrey showed me where to sit, and where to watch the donuts being made. She was so sweet, she even made sure that I got one of those funny hats to wear. After our donuts, we headed to Bienville Square to feed the squirrels. Audrey loves doing this. She scrapes the peanuts on the ground and the squirrels hurry to her. We must of had 30+ squirrels at one time in front of us wanting a peanut. After the park, we headed back to the house because our boss was in need of a nap. This was my favorite part of day. The down pour of rain really knocked us out.

Sunday, we slept in for just a bit. Not as late as we would have like, but when the boss says it's time to rise and shine, she means just that. So I got up and you guessed it, I made us our usual pancake breakfast. Ward and Audrey started chanting "we want pancakes". Afterwards, we got dressed and headed to Dauphin Island to see MawMaw. We visited for a little while, not too long. We took Audrey to the Sea Lab. She really had a good time. So did I. Of course we had to find so boats for Audrey to see, so we stopped at the Pelican Reef for a late lunch. Yummy!!! Audrey didn't get to nap, so you can bet she got a bit fussy toward the days end. I insisted that she stay awake until 7:30. That sweet baby passed out as soon as her head hit the pillow, with her parents not too far behind her.

Someone's in the Kitchen

Audrey and her daddy baked Chocolate Chip Cookies last night. As you can tell in the photos, she was so proud of herself. She washed her hands, LAID down on the kitchen floor, and neatly placed each cookie in the baking pan. Her daddy placed her pan of cookies in the oven as she clapped. Audrey drug her chair into the kitchen and sat in front of the oven, and very patiently watched as they baked. She requested that we turned the lights off so that she could see better...smart girl! She wanted her daddy to sit in a chair and watch with her. So, Ward, being the super-daddy that he is, did just that. I could tell that he was feeling like this was the longest 17 minutes ever. I had the honor of taking her cookies out of the oven, and getting her a cup of milk. She couldn't wait to share her creation with her mommy and daddy.

BUSY.....
I haven't been blogging lately. Things at work are really booming. I have been going to the gym with a friend from high school. She is really looking good. Me? Well I'm trying. I'm going to stick to it, and hopefully get my schedule in order within the next few weeks.

Audrey got to spend yesterday with her MawMaw and Meme. She didn't seem to miss us at all. Mother said that she was the perfect little angel. She behaved while they had lunch and pottied when needed. Audrey had a short nap, not the 2 hour nap that I belive is required for her busy little body. She was a bit testy with me, due to her lack of rest.

I left work early yesterday to hit the gym. Ward met my mom and tended to Audrey while I was out. Between the time I got home and the time Audrey was put in the tub, she pooped twice in her panties and pee-peed once. She didn't behave while we sat down to dinner. I asked her why she didn't tell me that she needed to potty? She just shrugged her shoulders at me. So what is my mother's secret?

This morning, the first word out of her mouth was MawMaw. Bless her heart, she wanted to spend another day with my mother, but she had to go to school instead.

The Wiggles

Last night Audrey attended her very first live concert. We took her to see the Wiggles, and she absolutely loved it. We started talking to her about the show a week or so ago, and when we walked into that arena, the smile on her face was priceless. She was in total Ahh! Audrey never took her eyes off the show. She sat in my lap when she wasn't sitting in her own big-girl chair. We ate popcorn and shared a lemonade.

She has a couple of videos that she loves to watch, so she was familiar with all the characters. The show opened with the Wiggles driving around in the Big Red Car. We know all the words, and we all sang along. This really put everyone in a Wiggley mood. The best part of the show was when "Wags the Dog" was introduced. Wags is her favorite. She clapped, she waved, she wiggled, and had the brightest smile I've ever seen.

She talked about the show all the way home, with that same bright smile never leaving her face.

$$$$
I am so happy to announce that Audrey's tuition has been reduced due to the fact that she is now wearing big girl panties. She doesn't know it, nor would she care much, but she is saving us $520.00 a year in tuition alone. Not to mention all the savings from the cost of diapers. This will of course go towards her collage fund. Potty Training was a lot easier than I thought it would be. Audrey really has been so good in letting me know when it's time. She's so proud of herself.

My little girl surprises me everyday. Her vocabulary is really growing. She is putting 4-5 words sentences together, and now insists on using a real cup. Sippy-cups are just too passe, and for babies. She will be the first to tell you that she is a "big-girl". In my eyes, and in my heart she will always be my sweet baby girl.

"Luck?", Not So Much A Lady....
So we are back from Ward's birthday trip to the casinos. Sadly, we have to keep our day-jobs. We had a lot of fun pressing our luck, but luckily Audrey still has her collage fund. We checked into our room at the Isle of Capri early evening and headed down stairs where we stayed until nearly 2 a.m. I guess the saying is true, "Time flies when you're having fun". Ward tried his luck at craps, black-jack, and who knows what else. As for me, only the slots. Doesn't take a lot of thinking to press the spin button. We had our share of drinks, maybe one too many for me, but goodness did we have fun. Thankfully, we only celebrate our birthday's once a year.

Audrey had her sleep over with her Aunt Kat and Mary Catherine. I could tell by the look on her face that she had a super time. She was really sleepy and ready for her nap when she got home. Although we knew she was safe, and that she was having a blast, but we painfully missed her. She was our first thought Saturday morning. We couldn't wait to get home to her for lots of kisses and hugs.

Happy Birthday!!

Ward celebrated his 54th birthday Tuesday. Unfortunately, he had to work all day, but I was able to pry him away long enough to take him to lunch. Audrey and I had a birthday cake waiting for him when he got home. She had so much fun blowing out the candles over and over, and her daddy had even more fun egging her on. Finally, after about 20 times of relighting and blowing out, it was time to cut the cake. The three of us pigged out. Yum!

Ward isn't the easiest to buy for, so this year for his birthday, I am taking him to Southern Las Vegas, better known as Biloxi, Ms. We are going to wine & dine, press our luck at the tables, and dance the night away. Luck Be A Lady Tonight!! Our plan is to sneak out early this afternoon. Audrey is having a sleep over tonight with her Aunt Kat and Mary. She is so excited, and has been talking about it non-stop. She told me this morning that she is going to tickle Mary all over, and sleep with her Aunt Kat.

Wish us luck....

2 for 2
Audrey made it through her second day without any accidents at school, or at home. I can tell that she is so proud of herself, and the progress she is making. I still prefer for Audrey to sleep in a diaper at night. Since this whole potty-training process began, putting her in a diaper at night hasn't been an issue...until last night. I think we may have had our first mother/daughter fight. Audrey fought me tooth and nail, she even yelled at me. I'm not too sure what what she was saying, but she was certainly yelling. She didn't want to where a diaper, and she let me know just that. I thought I was going to have to sit on her just to put the thing on. After about 15 minutes of struggling, I finally succeeded. I may have won this battle, but something tells me I may not when the war. I have no idea where this attitude comes from?

Good Job
I am so happy, not to mention so proud for Audrey. Yesterday was the first day Audrey came home in the same clothes that she left the house in. She has been wearing "big girl panties" to school for only one week, and has been having the expected accidents. Yesterday, she made it all day long, and was given stickers for her good work. I asked her this morning if she was going to get more stickers today? She answered, "no pee-pee Mommy". She is getting to be such a big girl. She loves all the praise we give her when she potties. The way she smiles so brightly and claps her hands is just adorable. Good job little bit!! Mommy and Daddy love you so much.

What a fun weekend!!!
This has to be one of the best weekends ever. It all started Friday after Ward picked up Audrey from school, (I left work early). They then picked me up, and the three of us were off to Toy's R Us. Audrey is in the process of "Potty Training", and doing very well. She is now wearing big girl undies and she loves it. So as a reward, her daddy and I decided it was time for a trip to the toy store. She picked out a really cute doll with blond hair and blue eyes. I told her that her new baby needed a name. Audrey chose the name Peggy. I have no idea where that name came from, or where or if she has even heard it before. So Peggy it is!!! Afterwards, we went for Mexican, my favorite. Audrey was on her very best behavior, and even told me that she needed to potty.

Saturday, I slept in while Ward and Audrey went to Krispy Kreme. Audrey loves that place, but who can blame her. She thinks that this is just the best thing ever. She always comes home wearing one of those funny hats, and she brings me breakfast in bed. What a sweetie. We played outside alot. Audrey was so excited all day because she was getting to spend the night with her Aunt Kat, and Mary. It's so nice to see her so happy. Kathy couldn't pick her up soon enough. So with a hug and kiss and a bye-bye for both me and her daddy, off she went.

Ward and I had our date. We took our time getting all ready and looking good. We headed out for a night dancing and several cocktails. Or at least what we call dancing.

Sunday, I made me and Ward pancakes with all the trimmings. Talk about something weird. We both said at the same time how strange it felt not having Audrey with us for breakfast. We even went for our Sunday drive without her. Although we missed her, it was nice to have time for just us. We were able to talk and catch up with one another.

Later, I met Audrey and my sister at the pool. We had a really nice afternoon. Audrey couldn't get enough of watching Mary Catherine's jumping and splashing. The weather was off and on, but all and all it turned out to be a wonderful day. Ward was happy to see me pull into the drive with his little side-kick in tow, and she was just as happy to see him. Audrey was completely tuckered, she nearly fell asleep while eating her dinner. She crawled into her daddy's lap and was out in the matter of seconds. She didn't even budge when he laid her on the sofa.

This is a recap of our vacation to Gulf Shores this year. I have to say, that this was truly one of the best vacations I have ever had. I have already added a ticker to count down the days until next year. This year was especially fun for Audrey.

Her first trip, 3 summers ago, she wasn't quiet three months old. She was at the end of the terrible "Colic". She slept in her Aunt Aynne's arms for the entire fireworks show.

Last year, she was walking and into everything, but still a lot of fun for her daddy and me. We learned that she doesn't like the feel of sand. She stayed awake and saw the whole fireworks show. She only got in the pool for a few minutes, but seemed to like it okay.

This year, WOW, what a blast!!! My Audrey was simply wonderful. She was happy the entire time. Only fussed when she was sleepy, but so did her daddy. Like I've said before, they are two peas in a pod. She still doesn't like the sand, but absolutely loves the pool. She really made her Mommy and Daddy proud.

Day 1 - Tuesday

Today is the day. We are finally heading to Gulf Shores for our vacation. We had to go into work for a few hours just to tie up some loose ends, but I left around noon to make sure that we had all we would need for our trip. Ward worked a little later, and picked up Audrey from daycare. She had a swimming party today, and was really excited about that. So, after Ward picked up Audrey, and the two of them picked me up, we were on our way.

We decided to take the back roads today. It seems like forever since I've driven that way. The country sides and all the farms are simply beautiful. Audrey napped very briefly, but she was on her best behavior. We checked into our condo without a hitch; smooth sailing so far.

Ward's sister Aynne, and her family, were already there by the time we arrived. Her son, or should I say my nephew, Ray, and his brand new fiance, Stephanie, were able to make the trip from California this year. Aynne's youngest son, or again should I say my other nephew, Jake, is also here this year.

We got ourselves settled, unpacked, and ready for our vacation to begin. We had dinner with my brother-in-law's cousin, Howard. He has a cabin nearby and is a lot of fun to visit while we are at the beach each year. Ward is responsible for delivering newspapers to the cabin and condos each morning. After dinner we came back to our condo and just nearly collapsed. All three of the Fendleys were just tuckered out.

Day 2 -Wednesday

This morning Ward went to the supermarket for lots of groceries. He did this while Audrey and I slept late. He delivered the newspaper to Howard's as usual, and he had his coffee with Howard and Bobby. We stayed around the condo area for most of the day. We took Audrey to the pool this afternoon. I was totally stunned by the way Audrey showed us just how unafraid she is of jumping to us. I finally taught her that she has to wait for my signal (clapping my hands) before she can jump. Wow, that child wasn't scared at all.

We had dinner at the cabin. Jake and Ray grilled steaks, and let me tell you, that was one of the best steaks I have ever tasted. My hat's off to the chefs. Stephanie and I polished off a bottle of wine....very good wine. We stayed and visited for a while, until Audrey let us know that her bedtime had arrived. Audrey is in love with "Annie's Hammock." This is a hammock that is underneath the cabin. I can't blame her, it really is comfortable. I could sleep there all night long.

Day 3 - Thursday

This morning I got up and cooked us my infamous pancake breakfast. After breakfast we got ready for the day. We went upstairs to visit with Aynne and Bobby before heading out. Ward wasn't able to have his coffee at the cabin today. Howard's daughter JC left for Europe early this morning. He had to drive her to New Orleans to catch her plane, so Ward had to settled for coffee and breakfast with Audrey and me.

We decided to take Audrey to Gulf Shores Zoo today. Not too bad for such a small zoo, they are still rebuilding due to Hurricane Ivan. It was hot, to say the least, but well worth it. Audrey didn't complain at all. She is always on her best behavior whenever we are in the company of wild animals. We took her to a gift shop and let her pick out a "prize" for being good. She first chose a plastic alligator head, but then decided on two plastic balls.

I bought her an airbrushed T-shirt, and a float for the pool. Audrey just loves her new float. It took a little coaxing to get her in the darn thing, but once she was in, it took a lot more coaxing to get her out. After the pool, the three of us headed upstairs for a nap. One of the best naps by far. Ward and I decided to stay in, so he cooked us his really tasty spaghetti. Of course we ate way too much.

Day 4 - Happy 4th of July

Today, we got up early, skipped breakfast and headed to the cabin for Howard's Annual 4th of July Cook-Out. He has been doing this for years, and I love that we get to participate in the festivities.

Bobby and Howard start cooking very early, if not the night before. Let me tell you, they can certainly cook a Boston Butt. Lots of people were there this year; at one time, almost 80 friends and family.

My brother-in-law, Harding, and his son, Thomas, made it just in time for all the food. They were only able to stay for the night. If you know Harding, you know that he was at the beach to party -- and party he did!

After we stuffed ourselves sick, Audrey got a little grumpy. This is an indication that she is in need of a nap. After her nap, we headed back to the pool. Today was even more fun. I love to see her smile, and that is all she does while swimming. I started talking to her about the fireworks that would be happening soon. She just smile, as if she knew what I was talking about.

The fireworks show is the best in Gulf Shores. I can't think of a better place to be than on a blanket on the beach with lots of family and friends. Before we headed to see the fireworks, Stephanie and I decided it was a great time for daiquiris. I have never made daiquiris before, so I dubbed them "Theresa Surprises." Turned out pretty dang good. Well, no one complained. We hung out at our place for awhile and had a fantastic time.

Day 5 - Saturday

This morning we had pancakes with all the trimmings. Harding and Thomas came by to have lunch with us before heading back home. After lunch Ward took Audrey to the pool, I stayed in for a little "Me" time.

Once again, Stephanie demanded that I make more "Theresa Surprises." This batch was even better the night before. We hung out at our place before heading upstairs for dinner at Aynne's. Nothing beats the leftovers from Howard's cook-out. We sat on their balcony for a long time, catching up on everyone, and talking about next year. We will have just about everyone with us next go-around. For me the more the merrier. Audrey loves her Aunt Annie. Well by this time, I was feeling really tired, so we decided to call it a night and headed back to our place for sleep.

Day 6 - Sunday

This morning Ward woke me up with chocolate covered Krispy Kreme donuts, one of my favorites. This just added to eating way too much...who cares, I'm on vacation. Audrey was on her best behavior today, and just couldn't get enough of the pool, or her cousin Ray (Ray-Ray, as she calls him). We really made today count.

Sadly, we will have to say good-bye, and head back home in the morning. Ward and Audrey played in the pool, and he did his best to make her play in the sand. She still doesn't want anything to do with that at all. That is okay, she has plenty of time, and many trips to the beach in her future. Aynne cooked the best lasagna I have eaten in my life. Goodness, it was good. We visited with everyone for a long while before saying goodnight, and hugging those who would be sleeping late Monday morning. Aynne and Audrey played hide-and-go-seek -too cute for words.

Audrey's uncle Bobby, after probably far too many, decided to test the strength of Audrey's head by slamming (repeatedly) the patio door on my poor child's head. It left a mark that quickly disappeared, but Ward thinks she will bear emotional scars forever, or until Uncle Bobby decides to pay her way through college. Our lawyer, T. A. Harding Fendley, Esquire, asked that we not discuss any further details of this issue until the case is settled.

Day 7 - Monday

The time finally came for us to leave - my least favorite time. I had packed-up the kitchen Sunday night, and Ward handled packing up everything else - early, VERY early, Monday morning.

Watching Audrey blow a kiss to the pool "bye, bye, pool," then another kiss to the fish on the condo wall, were both fun, but a little sad, to watch.

One more hug and kiss for everyone at the beach, then off on the long drive home. Ray and Stephanie were headed back to Los Angeles, and the Texas Clan (Aynne, Bobby and Jake) are in route back to Houston. Bobby stays home a few more weeks, then back to his job in Italy.

It's Finally Here!!
We are leaving tomorrow for a well needed vacation. We will be in Gulf Shores, AL for 6 wonderful days. I can hardly wait. Ward and I have been counting down the days since we left last year. We were scheduled to leave Wednesday, but we just couldn't wait any longer. So we stepped it up a day.

Ward has family in several different parts of the country, so we all try to get together every 4th of July week. We're not going to have as many family members this year, but we are sure to have a fabulous time, and we will certainly miss those who couldn't make it.

Our plans consists of doing a whole lot of nothing. Hopefully, Audrey will grow to like the feel of sand between her toes. I'm going to try to build a sandcastle with her...I'll keep all of you posted on that. I plan on sitting by the pool as much as possible. I will more than likely eat way too much, but who cares, I'm on vacation. Ward and I will set on the balcony every night, with a glass of wine, and listen to the sound of the Gulf of Mexico crashing on the shore. Can't get any better than that.

For all my family and friends, I hope all of you have wonderful, fun filled, and safe 4th of July holiday.

Splish-Splash

Who needs a $40,000 pool, when all it takes is a pink plastic $11.00 pool to put a smile on a little girls face. Audrey really loves her pool. She insists that her Daddy get in it with her. We had so much fun yesterday playing or as Audrey says 'immin". Ward is such a wonderful Daddy. He was just all to happy get in with her. Just look at the two of them...takes my breath away.